How to ask a girl out ?
It could be the scariest topic that you can search on the internet, if you have no idea about it. But for many of us it is easy like flipping a coin.
Again the question is, How ?
So, here we are. Doesn't matter you are a noob or pro, every person need some tips, basically if you are thinking about asking a girl for out it means you are comfortable in talking to her.
But if you don't even know how to talk to a girl, then you should read our this article : How to talk to a girl ?
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And if you are already talking to her and she is also comfortable with you then you can try asking her for out by using following steps :
1. Be Selective
Fear of rejection is the biggest factor that we hesitate to ask and it is obvious also. So you can reduce the chances of rejection by being selective.
Ask out the girl who is comfortable with you. Does she make eye contacts ? Does she smiles while talking ? You can not ask any random girl for a out.
Second most important thing is, your inner voice, if you are not getting that spark from inside dont force yourself to ask her, think about it again.
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2. When to ask ?
This is the important part, because the face expressions are the very helpful thing to understand the mood of the person. So, i would strongly recommend to ask her face to face and specially not in text messages.
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In messaging it is hard to predict the mood of the person but you can easily do it when you can see her. Be polite and have soft voice, work on your looks. Yes it is important, every girl would prefer a handsome guy to go out.
3. Bring her gift
When you are going try your luck, its good to have a lucky charm, and chocolates can help in this situation. You can say chocolates are the most helpful friends of boys, if you bring her this sweet present your chances could be much high.
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You can also choose some other gifts or flowers, but the flower should be her favourite, so do some research before buying.
4. Buy her tickets
You need a heavy pocket in this stage, because you can not ask a girl for money. So, be prepared and keep the money double of your budget.
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If you are going movies or some kind of show buy advance tickets because you really can't take end time risks here.
5. You can flirt
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Yes, flirting is the only weapon that we boys have but should be in controlled way. Over flirting is irritating, so be a gentle man. Here are the examples of some lines that you can use or take idea :
1. Save me… I’m dying of boredom… can’t work anymore…
This flirty text shows you’d rather be with her at that very moment.
2. What is the first thing that attracts you to a guy?
This question is a set up for a flirtatious conversation you can take any direction.
3. I have to admit, every time my phone buzzes I hope that it’s you.
Let her know you look forward to talking to her and want more in the future.